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She. – The Dilemma of Being a Brown Girl

She holds a master’s degree but it’s not a medical/law degree hence she is not good enough.
She has a liberal arts degree so she must be lazy hence she is not good enough.
She is a doctor and will not have time for her family or husband hence she is not good enough.
She is really dark so she is ugly hence she is not good enough.
She does not come from the same social status as us hence she is not good enough.
She is overweight hence is not good enough.
She grew up in a home where her mother did not work so she will  not either so she is not good enough.
She was raised in a divorced home hence she will break her own home so she is not good enough.
She does not wear designer so she must be poor hence she is not good enough.
She is too career driven and is doing a disservice to her family hence she is not good enough.
She has dated men before so she is obviously a hoe hence she is not good enough.
She is a terrible cook and cannot even make tea hence she is not good enough.
She is divorced and she must have done something wrong in her own marriage hence she is not good enough.
She’s in her 30s and has hit her expiration date hence she is not good enough.
She does not attend church or mosque and is not religious hence she is not good enough.
She likes to go out with her friends and will not take her marriage seriously hence she is not good enough.

What other excuses do you think we can add to this list or have I made my point very clear? Stop adding bricks to the shoulder of women. Remember that God created woman to be loved and cared for.

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